I will have a number of blogs on the subject of stress management. Stay tuned.
This could
also be called “fire and cow,” a term used by the ancients to describe their
approach to stress management. Not knowing the word stress they used the word
fire as we shall see. They also knew that going through a fire helped burn off
the impurities leaving a more precious metal. From this metaphor they had a
positive view of stress, not unlike the Chinese symbol for crisis made up of
two characters, danger and opportunity.
When you
are out in the country and you see cows, sheep, or goats say ruminants. When
you see them on TV or in a magazine say ruminants. They give us the word
ruminate (chewing the cud) and its relatives, meditate, reflect, ponder, etc.
The words make pastoral conversations productive. Many people miss this when
they come to conversations with the conclusion already formulated. Their conversational contribution becomes a pronouncement with no further thought. Ruminate
provides the essential loop for making new connections and for feed back. Ruminate is practiced by Christ in the early verses of the Gospel of Luke, chapter 10.
These
animals, called ruminants, have a stomach with more than one chamber allowing
food to be chewed until digested. "Chewing the cud" is a necessary
step in the process. In the formation of our words and meaning this visual
source of "chewing the cud" took a metaphorical move to chewing on
our life experiences for meaning and understanding.
For the
ancients, cow became the antidote for fire in the expression "fire and
cow." We do not normally associate the two together. Fire refers to
stressors, tension, change, etc. We still have this reference to fire in a
number of remarks, "hot under the collar," etc. You can make your own
list. Cow offers a way to deal with the situation, "chew the cud."
What are we to learn from this? What changes will we need to make? "Fire
and cow" becomes a way of living with and resolving issues. Discernment and reconciliation is in the background.
Bruno
Bittelheim used this approach as a survivor of a death camp in Germany. His
book Surviving tells his story where periodically he would review and record
what happened as a way of making sense out of his experience and the experience
of others for the benefit of all.
Dr.
Pennybaker has taken this one step further in his linguistic inquiry of those
who keep a journal during a crisis or illness. Writing and keeping a journal
has been shown to make a difference in the immune system and help protect us
from infections. I will write about this in greater detail.
Many of
the Scripture stories come out of crisis situations. They have been the source
of “chewing the cud” for generations. The Jewish Midrash and our Christian
commentaries and theology are outcomes.
The
parables of Jesus came from ruminating on life experiences during his quiet
time with God the Father. Their timeless truth and energy prompt our attention
for doing the same.
A quick
summary appears in the letters of the Hebrew word shalom. Using the four
letters of the word you can see the meaning also.
ֹ
"fire ש
opens ָׁל the door ו to completeness/wholeness ם ."
Let this
reflection, born out of the history of seeing cows and other ruminants, and
language itself, be our beginning and continued prompting for “chewing the
cud.”
Shalom,
Marlin Whitmer, BCC
Marlin Whitmer, BCC
Retired
hospital chaplain
meditate appears frequently in the Psalms, for example
psalm 1: 2
Their delight is in the law of the LORD, * and they meditate on his law day
and night.
Psalm 119:15 I will meditate on your commandments * and give attention to your ways.
Psalm 119:15 I will meditate on your commandments * and give attention to your ways.
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